This Thing Called LIFE
I've learned a lot while journeying through this thing called life. I find myself discovering something new, learning a new lesson, or unlearning something unhealthy for me. Whether it be spiritually, emotionally, or physically, it's a never ending process. I've gotten to the point to where as long as it causes me to grow, keeps me going (in the right direction) and pushes me forward, I deem it a necessary part of life. Now I didn't say it was all easy or a simple walk in the park lol. Some days hurt... A LOT. Some days there were tears... A LOT of them. Some days I had to unlearn what I thought I knew, because I found out that I really had no idea, and that's ok too!
What are some key takeaways to share from my experiences? I think knowing the following will catapult you ahead in life, and put you in one of the best positions possible.
A Few Key Takeaways:
"My ______ is NOT the responsibility of others."
Happiness
Peace
Joy
Growth
Love
Security
Future
*Whatever applies to you specifically
When you take the responsibility of achieving those things away from others, that you unknowingly put them in charge of, it:
Takes away the expectation of them meeting, and (inadvertently) failing to meet your goal/need.
It puts you in a place to not be disappointed and upset with anyone or anything that did not happen.
Giving others the power to make those things happen for you:
Sets you up for failure.
Creates a displaced dependency.
Puts a chip on your shoulder because they didn't "come through and produce" like you thought they should.
Most importantly... The BIGGEST key takeaway would be to TRUST GOD with all the details of your life. He always has your best interest at heart. He knows exactly what you need, when you need it, and how to get it to you. He had these things mapped out long before you were even out of the womb!
I could go on and on about any point above, but I'll stop with a prayer for you and your journey. I pray that you are in a position to let your guard down and fully trust God to meet every need in your life, the way He chooses to bless you. I pray He'll come through exceedingly, abundantly, and above anything you could ever ask or think. (Eph. 3:20). I know and believe He will, because that's just who He is!
Love & Blessings!
-Danielle
